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Brian WolfeLMFT

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Location

Virtual, California

Insurance Accepted

Anthem Blue Cross Of CA, Aetna, Health Net/MHN, Blue Shield of California

Communication Style

Creative, Engaging, Mindful, Open-minded, Warm

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Focus areas

ADHD, Anger Issues, Animal Loss, Anxiety, Bipolar Disorder, Burnout, Couples Therapy, Depression, Eating Disorders, Family Conflict, Family Therapy, Grief, Life Transitions, Men’s Issues, Panic, Personality Disorders, Phobias, Relationship Concerns, Self-Harm, Stress, Substance Use, Workplace Stress

Experienced with

BIPOC, Asian / Pacific Islander community, Black community, Parents, Immigrants, Blended families, Non-monogamous relationships, Students

Years of Experience

23+

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I like to help my clients learn about intense emotions coming in waves like on an ocean and how to notice body sensations which then escalate into undesired behaviors.

License number

#38313

Therapy style

We live our adult lives with a belief it's not okay to feel certain feelings. This obviously doesn't work. My experience has been that most of us do not learn about emotion when we are young and in fact, likely get punished for displaying emotion. I believe this could put our emotional states "in the closet" so to speak. I like to help my clients learn about intense emotions coming in waves like on an ocean and how to notice body sensations which then escalate into undesired behaviors. With a combination of CBT and DBT tools, I like to educate my clients about the purpose and necessity of all emotions and how to step away from feelings that could result in "problem behaviors" which only make things worse. Once we learn how to manage this phenomena, we can feel successful to move on to work on more difficult relationships in our adult lives that cause us trouble whether it be interpersonal familial, or work.

Approaches

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-i)
  • Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
  • Interpersonal Psychotherapy
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Solution-focused
  • Strengths-based

Languages Spoken

English

Education

BFA - Art History and Journalism, Ohio University MFA - Art History and Painting, Ohio University MS - Counseling Psychology, San Francisco State University

Interests

Exercise, my dog Rosie, meditation (chanting), friends/family relationships, art, painting, and drawing